blog

The Freedom Formula 10 Ways to Live Boldly, Wild & Free

Written by Mikel Blair | May 12, 2025 4:54:51 PM

What if the version of you you’re chasing… is actually the one you’ve been quietly silencing?

You weren’t born to play small, be polite, or wait your turn.

You were made to live boldly. To trust your gut. To take up space with joy, fire, and unapologetic truth.

But somewhere along the way—between expectations, responsibilities, and everyone else’s rules—you forgot how free you were meant to be.

The Freedom Formula isn’t about hustling harder or becoming someone else.

It’s about remembering.

It’s about reconnecting to the wild, wise, untethered version of you that already exists—underneath the noise, the to-do lists, and the stories you’ve outgrown.

In the next 10 tips, you’ll find micro-shifts. Bold prompts. Rebellious nudges.

Each one is a reminder that freedom is not a finish line—it’s a decision.

A lifestyle. A return.

BUCKLE UP…

1. Say No Faster

No is a full sentence. Use it to protect your peace, your time, and your energy. Every no is a louder yes to the life you actually want.

2. Romanticize Your Own Life

Light the candle. Wear the lipstick. Play the music. You don’t need a reason to make your life feel like magic—just permission, and you already have it.

3. Leave the Group Chat

Digitally or emotionally. If it drains you, if it makes you shrink, if it isn’t real—you don’t owe it your time. Protect your sacred space.

4. Move Like You Mean It

Dance in your kitchen. Walk like you’ve already made it. Take up space physically and emotionally. The way you move tells the world who you are.

5. Break a Rule You Never Agreed To

Who said you had to wait your turn? Keep it together? Be “nice”? Bold women make their own rules—and rewrite the ones that never fit.

6. Reclaim the Morning

Start your day with you—not your inbox. Ten quiet minutes with your thoughts, breath, or journal is a revolution in a world that feeds on your distraction.

7. Speak First. Even If Your Voice Shakes.

In rooms that feel intimidating or too polished—go first. Say the honest thing. Ask the real question. You’ll give others permission to show up too.

8. Invest in Joy

Not just stocks or skincare—invest in joy. Experiences, friendships, hobbies that light you up. Your joy is a powerful form of rebellion.

9. Stop Apologizing

Don’t shrink your tone, your truth, or your ambition to make others comfortable. You’re not too much. You’re finally just enough for the life you want.

10. Remember Who You Were Before You Were Told Who to Be

The wild one. The curious one. The loud, weird, magical one. She’s still here. And she’s ready to run the show.

 

The Payoff of Living Boldly

  • When you live boldly, you stop waiting for permission—and start leading with purpose.
  • When you live wild, you return to instinct, joy, and full-body yeses.
  • When you live free, you remember: you already have everything you need.

This isn’t about being fearless. It’s about feeling the fear and doing it anyway—surrounded by a community of women who are done playing small.

Living boldly, wild & free isn’t a luxury. It’s your birthright.

Take back your power!!